Tomorrow, I will start again...

In my NoFap Streak days, I'd always relapse after a while. On the day that I relapsed, I'd edge and binge to porn for hours. "Tomorrow, I will start again." "I've already messed up, I may as well continue."

"What difference will doing it one more time make?"

And then I came across the concept of "all or nothing thinking". I was taught by supposed "experts" that if you do watch porn that it is okay, but to try to avoid getting into a mental state of "all or nothing thinking". Try to "reduce your frequency."

However, this is a lot easier said than done. Once you watch porn just once, you will want to do it again. It always felt like my brain weakened after that first time watching it. And this now makes total sense - I'd handed over all of my power to the addicted part of the mind (APOTM).

No wonder I'd end up binging and edging. All or nothing thinking was not the problem.

My inability to deal with the APOTM was the problem. Thoughts like "Tomorrow, I will start again." and "I've already messed up, I may as well continue." are very clear junkie thoughts (JT's) coming from the APOTM. The thought "What difference will doing it one more time make?" is a very clear unanswerable question (UQ) coming from the APOTM.

Thanks to Mari Paulus, I have crystal clear clarity on how to deal with this problem 24/7 and effective scripts for literally any junkie thoughts (JT's) or unanswerable questions (UQ's). The rational part of the mind is back in control because I know exactly how to deal with the APOTM at all times and never have to worry about this problem.

Fear is a thing of the past. Clarity and peace of mind has taken fear's place.

Without this method, I truly believe I would've stayed stuck in the addiction for good.

My business WhatsApp is full of messages from guys who I'm sharing this exact method with. I feel incredibly grateful to get to work with Mari Paulus and the clients in our program right now and I loved received this incredibly heart-warming message from Mari this morning too.

I am very excited to dive back into work today, talking with clients and helping to share the exact same tools Mari taught me to get me on the straight line.

We have hope for the future. We are seeing results from clients day in and day out. Guys, just like myself, applying their scripts and rewiring their neural pathways. We know what is possible for people when they have the right tools to deal with the APOTM correctly. Reducing your frequency of porn does not work. It is ineffective. It will keep you trapped.

Do not fall for this common mistake that most people make. All or nothing thinking is not the problem, ineffective solutions to dealing with the APOTM are. If you choose to watch porn once, you will want to watch it again, and again, and again. You don't have to be a slave to your desires.

You can be in control every moment of every day. Permanent mental freedom is possible!