Without Help From Mari Paulus,
I Would Have Kept On Relapsing
Change Your Neural Pathways Using A 5-Fact Script
Common Methods Are Ineffective In Helping You
For over 9 years I went in circles trying my very best to stop watching porn.
But, no matter how hard I tried or what I did, I'd eventually experience an urge and inevitably relapse.
This led to me feeling frustrated, annoyed at myself, and a lot of shame.​
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I would often question myself thinking "what is wrong with me?".
With the education I've received from Mari Paulus, I've come to understand that there was nothing wrong with me after all and that the methods I used simply didn't work.​
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Yes, many methods helped me reduce my porn use but I'd always end up relapsing once again.
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Most guys we work with have tried at least one of the following methods to try and overcome their problem with porn:
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12-Steps
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​Addiction Recovery Apps
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Blockers
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Books
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Exercise
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Meditation
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Motivation
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NoFap
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Podcasts
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Removing Triggers
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Self-improvement
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Substitutions
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Therapy
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Willpower​
Rewire Neural Pathways Using a 5-Fact Script
Once your brain is wired to want porn, you're going to keep wanting it until you change your neural pathways correctly.
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Compulsive desire refuses to be ignored.
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You can go round in circles trying your best to manage the addiction or you can face it head on and change it for good.
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Contrary to popular belief, you don't have to live with this problem all your life.
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We use the right education and tools to enable people to think through compulsive desires and change their neural pathways correctly using a 5-fact script.
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Permanent mental freedom is possible.
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Mike Rewired His Brain After 20 Years of Porn Addiction
Like most our clients, Mike came to us having received poor information and a lack of direction by many professionals who do not specialise in addiction.
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They had tried their best but no one had told Mike how to actually deal with compulsive desires.
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Therefore, no matter how much he improved himself in other areas of life - he'd always end up back in his addictions.
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It was ruining much of his life so he chose to join the Beyond Compulsion Academy.
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We helped him install a completely fresh perspective on how to overcome his addiction.
Mike watched our videos, took notes, and spoke with us directly via WhatsApp and 1-1 calls.
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He got crystal clear on exactly what to do at all times and has now successfully taken back control from the addicted part of his mind.
He has discovered that addiction is not a life sentence and permanent mental freedom is possible.
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But, these 5-facts have not only helped me and Mike, the training we've received from Mari Paulus has also transformed the lives of clients from all over the world.
35+ Years Addiction Recovery Experience
Our education lead, Mari Paulus, has taught this method for over 35 years.
The method has worked for hundreds of people across a range of addictions.
We've combined my experience in the addiction with Mari's experience helping people overcome the addiction to build out a program that actually works.
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Whilst our core program is primarily taught by Mari Paulus, we set up a private WhatsApp group for every client to privately access both me and Mari throughout their time in the program.
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We understand addiction and we're on your side every step of the way. We work together to enable you to take back control from the addicted part of your mind using a 5-Fact script.
The 5-Fact Script Enables Our Client's To Thrive
I searched for “script” in my WhatsApp and screenshotted a few examples to share with you.
These are from a wide range of clients:
"I used the script and it worked wonders"
"It worked"
"Feeling the best I've felt in ages"
"Thanks again for providing this program"
"I get to use the script which feels like freedom"
"Completely in control"
"success is measured by how many times you've used the script"
"Build new neural pathways over time"
"The urges are weaker and weaker"
"I really can overcome this situation"
"Everything's going well, using my script and listening to your podcasts"
"Still going very well!"
"Yeah the script is actually very powerful"
"Been using the script, I've been successful"
"I had my script and I feel better now"
"I got this"
"No compulsion enacted"
"More clarity lately"
"Feel way more in control"
"I went to my script and the urge became weaker"
"It allows you to
take control"
"I'm clear"
"I have so much more time now"
"The script has genuinely been working"
"Feel the desire to engage dissipate"
"Overall things are
much better"
"This script has worked and it's the only thing that ever has"
"Doing good. Keep using my script"
"Script has been working like a charm"
"doing fine"
"Helps me get to a better emotional state"
"The script is working"
"I wish I met u 10 years ago, mari haha"
How to build your 5-Fact Script To Rewire Your Brain
When you join the program, leave your old methods on how to overcome this problem behind.
Do not even try and stop your compulsive behaviour until you've watched the first 3 core phases.
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Trying to stop without the right education will deny you the full opportunity to get into the correct neural pathways.
On some level, you'll still be relying on willpower by trying to stop this behaviour in the wrong way.
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Therefore, we do not expect our clients to stop their compulsive behaviours correctly until they have learned all 5 facts and have built out their full 5-Fact script with us correctly.
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You will know when you are ready and we will be working with you every step of the way to ensure everything is crystal clear.
Phase 1
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Once you join the program we set up a private WhatsApp group for you, me and Mari to communicate throughout your time in the program.
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You will be instructed to watch phase 1, take notes and send them to me and Mari via WhatsApp.
This is only for your benefit and to ensure you're on the right track.
If anything is unclear, we make it clear.
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​Phase 1 Total Video Length: 57 minutes
Facts: 2/5
Phase 2
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Now you've sent over your notes to us, you are ready to move onto phase 2.
You will take notes again and send these over to us via WhatsApp.
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Again, this is for your benefit and we will be available to clarify anything that you need to know at this point in the program.
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You will learn the 3rd of the 5 facts in phase 2.
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When you have finished phase 2, we will arrange your 1-1 liberation day call.
Phase 2 Total Video Length: 1 hour and 3 minutes
Facts: 3/5
Phase 3
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Upon entering phase 3, you will have a clearer understanding of the addicted part of the mind and how to deal with this problem correctly.
We bring in fact 4 and fact 5 and ensure you know how to deal with any uncertainty at all times by using a very specific script to change your neural pathways.
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Again, we are available to ensure everything makes 100% sense and you know exactly what to do, moment by moment, at all times.
Phase 3 Total Video Length: 45 minutes
Facts: 5/5
Liberation Day Call​
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You've now received a comprehensive education on addiction, have an understanding of the addicted part of the mind and have all 5 facts.
So, we have a 90 minute 1-1 call with you to ensure everything makes sense, answer any questions at all and build out your full 5-Fact script together.
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There can be fear around stopping your compulsive behaviour, so don't worry too much about this ahead of your liberation day call.
You will be trained on how to deal with any fear of relapsing as part of the program.
90 minute 1-1 call
The price is $349 per month (no time committment)
Common Questions
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How long will it take to overcome this problem?
You will watch the first 3 phases in your own time.
Once you've watched these 3 phases, you'll have your 1-1 liberation day call. It is only at this point that you will be ready to stop your compulsive behaviour correctly.
From this point onwards, you'll have everything you need to make a rational choice when you experience compulsive desires.
This is because you will have gained a comprehensive education on addiction and a 5-Fact script to think through your choice each and every time, moment by moment.
Over time, you'll experience less compulsive desires and eventually none due to you choosing to change your neural pathways by using your script.
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Relapse is not part of recovery. Therefore, the time it takes to overcome this problem would be extended considerably if you chose to engage in your compulsive behaviour after your liberation day call.
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What if I relapse after joining the program?
Choosing to engage in your compulsive behaviour is to be expected, up until your liberation day call.
If you did relapse after your liberation day call then we will direct you on how to get back on the straight line.
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There is no shame or judgement here.
We are on your side, every step of the way, and will ensure you get crystal clear on your next steps from this point onwards.
However, equally, we do not see "relapse as part of recovery".
Therefore we would recommend going back into the learning phase and having a new liberation day call.
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How long am I locked in for?
Whilst we recommend staying in the program for 12 months to ensure you go through withdrawal correctly, stay on the line straight, and get to enjoy the benefits on the other side - there is no time commitment.
You can leave the program at any point with no questions asked.
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How is the Beyond Compulsion Academy different to other programs?
We focus on dealing with compulsive desires directly.
You don't have to do loads of complicated inner work or run the self-improvement treadmill.
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We specifically focus on dealing with the addicted part of the mind directly so you can make choices you are proud of, moment by moment.
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We are here to help you take back control and feel empowered throughout the recovery process, without relying on willpower or feeling like you have to stay an "addict" all your life.
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What if I have tried a lot already and have always failed?
Well you will fit in with me and the other guys in the program perfectly.
Most people we work with have spent years and years trying their best to overcome this problem without the right help.
Our method provides a fresh perspective on things which you will not find anywhere else.
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Within the program, we train you on how to deal with the addicted part of the mind's self-deprecating strategies and how to answer back to past and future thinking correctly.
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What is the 5-Fact Script?
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When you experience compulsive desire, all you can think about is doing the thing that in that moment you want to do more than anything else.
The 5-Fact script grounds people in the present moment by enabling them to connect to their desire, without feeling any shame or resistance, and make a rational choice based on their options in that moment.​
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How does the script rewire my brain?
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The 5-Fact script is not a magical tool, but an effective, simple and direct method of dealing with compulsive desires.
Using the script rewires the brain as it enables people to experience the compulsive desire without acting on it. Through the correct, repeated use of the script, the addicted neural pathways will change.
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You will discover that you can experience the desires and still feel in control.
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Can this program work for other compulsive behaviours too?
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Yes.
The program was originally designed for a range of compulsive behaviours including food, nicotine, gambling and sex.
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Most our clients come to us with the aim to overcome their problem with porn, but end up overcoming a range of compulsive behaviours as well.
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What is included in the program?
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Weekly Check-in via a Typeform quiz
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WhatsApp Access to Tom and Mari for clarity on taking the program
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Over 25 hours of video content
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Full 5-Fact Script Template
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Specific Script to deal with any uncertainty
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Supportive, non-judgemental community
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How do I remain anonymous?
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​I appreciate the role shame has when it comes to porn addiction.
However, we very rarely focus on actually talking about porn or talking about shame.
We focus on dealing with compulsive desires correctly.
Stopping the behaviour will enable you to overcome those feelings of shame.
We don't need to know what porn you have looked at in the past in order to help you overcome this problem.
As for anonymity, it is preferred for Skool members to use their name and their own photo within the Skool community.
Everyone is in the same boat.
We are just guys who have grown up in a messed up world and have been susceptible to addiction.
However, if your anonymity is important to you - I totally get that.
Just let us know first and then when you join our Skool community, feel free to use an alias name and upload a photo of Tyler Durden as your profile picture. Why not? It is all good.
Enabling you with the right information to overcoming your addiction is the thing we really care about.
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Do I get 1-1 coaching included in the program?​
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One liberation day call is included in the program, in the first month.
This is a call to set up your script and get super clear on everything.
If you'd like extra 1-1 coaching then we do have exclusive discounts for people inside of our program (Beyond Compulsion Academy Members).
Non-Members = $150 for 30 minutes
Beyond Compulsion Academy Members = $50 for 30 minutes
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Is there a refund policy if the program doesn't work for me?
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It has taken thousands of hours of work and decades of addiction recovery experience to put all of this together.
Our client's subscriptions is what enables us to do this work and the method we provide does work.
We have seen countless evidence of this.
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Once you know this method, you can not unlearn it.
As such, once you've consumed the content - you are going to have received an enormous amount of value from me and Mari Paulus.
For these reasons and for the sake of us protecting ourselves from people wishing to exploit our hard work, we do not offer a refund.
Our program is deliberately set up to enable people to leave at any point, without requiring big 4-figure, upfront payments like most addiction recovery programs.
Therefore, this enables people to try the method for only $349 without any commitment to staying with us.
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Got any more questions?
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I'd genuinely love to hear from you if you have any more questions about the program.
I want to be as transparent as we possibly can be about everything we do.
Integrity is of utmost important to both me and Mari Paulus.
If you have any further questions on the program, please drop me a message on WhatsApp and I will be happy to help.
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